Ok, it's starting to bug me but you don't notice that you are even contradicting yourself.
At this point again, you again say Merkel/Germany is not doing anything about other countries or forcing anyone. Each country it's rules/laws, nobody did anything to affect other countries. (even though all countries in EU should keep the same set of rules/laws to be at the same level).
Yet just a little before you clearly admitted how merkel/germany is calling for help/support which just by being one of us, the EU, it's already halfway to forcing, if it wasn't such a wrong decision, the rest of countries would help despite it not being agreed upon. Why is there a "refuse" (and those countries doing referendum so they show their stance) if there was no call ?
And later you even thought about blackmailing countries who openly do not support you, by reducing the money flow, which is nothing different from "forcing", using your influence. And it's obvious this is in the mind of everyone who cares, also because while this negatively affects Germany's economy, it will lower the available money/money flow.
QuoteShe did a decision which was morally correct. If more european countries would have showed support then we wouldnt have a problem at all. [...]
East european states mostly refused to help... [...] (and western ones tried to go along and now getting annoyed and/or quitting)
In my eyes the payments to these countries should be reduced and the money instead should be sent to [...]
What you don't see about germany and it's "high and merited/deserved influence" is that it's economic growth is mainly because it's ideal location within EU, centered, 1-2 countries away from any other country, making biggest companies set their HQ there, industrial companies as well, and etc. 50+ years ago it was struggling to be self sufficient, it was just couple years ago when I heard Germany is taking a lead. If it starts doing more damage to EU than good, it can lose this big economic booster by getting isolated in the near future. Instead of breaking EU because the missuse of Germany's influence, maybe the better solution is restricting Germany. Instead of punishing every other country in the EU for not supporting Ger (which already happens as it's economy is being damaged), it's them who should be punished for acting out of line until they get back on the same page as the rest. But hopefully not, as that's going to look a lot worse than UK closing doors now, which DID happen partially thx to being called to "support" this open doors policy. It's the one single topic that wasn't there in the last brexit polls, it was the one reason that made more people vote to leave than the last times which had all the same reasons except this one, which you could've seen if you either investigated their news or personally knew ppl from there. And Cameron did say he's going out if UK is leaving since before, he was against it, not sure what "career save" you mention. And he did what he promised, he resigned one day after "losing" the referendum.
Still, on a personal note, Im not sure what germany is trying to do with all the people. They will never finish removing them from the country with how it is now, and they will never EVER integrate with the rest of the pop. You can take the gipsy people for example, all countries have them for hundreds of years and they still use their unwrittable language, still cause most of the criminal actions (like all the news about "romanian" doing something, it's normally gipsies with RO papers, not native ROs), still act differently and less civilized than the rest. Or well, USA, just bigger african slum areas than in Paris right now. "Spreading" them to other countries is no solution at all, it's sharing the problem which will keep being the same. So imo, NO, if all EU countries helped this would've been a bigger mess. Instead of pushing them back out from Greece or Hungary or Italy or whatever entry point they were stuck, germany took them in the center of Europe, now they are stuck with them and southern (as well as eastern) countries having more difficulty keeping up with the borders. NOT EU's problem really. It was a bad "personal" call not supported by EU.