I feel stupid quoting myself.. but.
" Forget about the fucking past, as my friend Cyb3r says "he who lives of the past lives in sorrow", what matters is now"
I've thought on all that. But doing right in the past don't justify actions in the present. Convincing them both to get out of this spotlight called "flame war", is what will stop this flaming.
I have seen nothing but shit, from both sides. And belive me, i am payed to see shit where i work.
Both sides haves good arguments, but both sides commited some mystakes i don't know about, noone knows about except themselves. And the way this can be fixed is with ppl assuming where they have commited such mistakes. It takes a man to fix a mistake, but it takes a noble soul to admit that mistake.
And yes, mistakes have been commited. Otherwise we wouldn't be here.