looks good
I just simply toned it down very low arbg values and use the RGB just simply for status indicators (incoming messages, CPU/GPU load via light speed changes, temperature display, etc.)
My PC is not even sitting on my desk but under it. (still visible but not disturbing). Generally i am not a big fan of RGB (pun intended). Even my choice of keyboard is careful. RGB yes but only to shine through the keys. I hate this bleedthrough RGB light under the keys.
I understand you completely and I don't like too much light because sometimes it can be a distraction in gaming, but my son also uses this computer and he is a big fan of RGB, this is a kind of compromise. I would also like to recommend putting the case on the desk because there is less dust, not because of the flex