Actually I think I fixed it, or rather it fixed itself, my wireless card has a habit of not liking an updated driver my computer wants to install for it, somehow it did update and wasn't acting right, so I restarted and un-installed the updated driver and restarted again and now the game connects, not sure why, how or even when I did something to make it work but I did, it seems that so far, If I have a problem, i'll just post it here and it will somehow work itself out, either with me fudging with it or by itself;
Thanks and regards
Daisuke (In game name also)