"tradition doesnt mean to worship the ashes. you shall rather keep the fire burning." also.. One shall never define his past by what he has done wrong or what has been done wrong to him. Pity and self-pity is nothing for the future. First of all as Im pretty new here I have no idea what 'they' could have possibly done to make the server suffer and almost be taken down.I think its a good thing you keep that decision on hold until talking with them for real (thats what the fire is all about in th…