OP -
You claim that what happens on other servers isn't your responsibility or business. I must ask you, if you are being truthful about this, why did this whole thing happen in the first place? In my eyes, I see you trying to police wrongdoing on our server, and then banning the player(s) on your server. I understand, using your name was wrong for that player to do, but you will not be policing our server any longer.
You also say that many clans on NQ are coming here to start trouble. I will not allow you to attack the North Quadrant server. If people left your server, most likely they won't give a shit if they're banned. I certainly wouldn't.
And with so many people and clans leaving, and all the flaming all over these forums from the years. I wonder. Maybe the problem isn't with everyone besides you. Maybe it's you, OP.